三人行，必有我师(焉)

语法
把 + direct object + 当成/当作/看成/看作 + indirect object "see X as Y" (part b)
https://resources.allsetlearning.com/chinese/grammar/Advanced_uses_of_%22ba%22

词汇
特别, especially; 特点, characteristic ( pinyin )
https://mandarinbean.com/new-hsk-2-word-list/

Guardian:
我一直把你当成是我最好的兄弟, I've always thought of you as my closest friend.
你依然没有把我当作一个正常的女人, you've never seen me as an ordinary woman
我一点都不特别，我特别的一般, I'm not a bit special, I'm especially ordinary

Me:
我们想让你把我们看作自己的家人。
请解释给我那个男人的特点。