第四十一天

[nnozomi]

还是, "or" in questions"
https://resources.allsetlearning.com/chinese/grammar/Offering_choices_with_%22haishi%22

还是 also has a bunch of different usages, doesn't everything, but this one is just "X or Y" as used in questions. (I think.)

Guardian:
普通的什么呀？普通的绝世高手，还是普通的地星领袖啊？(Zhao Yunlan getting on Shen Wei's case for his reflexive "I'm just an ordinary..." "An ordinary what? An ordinary superstar, or an ordinary leader of Dixing?")
说吧，你是为了钱还是为了名？(Let's hear it, are you out for money or for fame?)
那请问你是中医还是西医吗？ (May I ask, do you practice Chinese or Western medicine?)

My practice:
你更喜欢红色的还是白色的？
你要喝热茶还是冷茶？现在是冬天吧，我当然喝热茶。
真的吴邪到底是谁啊？你还是他？

Comments

[presumenothing]

Existential facepalm moment. I have to offer a correction at myself because I figured out what was niggling at me with that example I gave… forgot 无论〜还是〜 (and its synonymous friend 不管〜还是〜) is basically a set phrase. So even though this feels like a 或者-for-statements instance, the more Proper And Correct use would be 无论是中医还是西医. The other exception would be statements that imply some uncertainty on the part of the speaker/subject – those still take 还是, e.g. 我不知道他今天去还是明天去. As opposed, I guess, to something like 你可以明天或着后天去.

The above aside (as if two exceptions isn't already a significant deviation LOL someone make this language make sense) "还是 = questions, 或者 = statements" works! And I am now recalling why I did not enjoy taking tests for this language 哈哈哈哈 there's all this stuff that doesn't necessarily sound wrong colloquially but will get you marked down anyway.

还是 "better do x" if the wiki is leading me correctly

Yep, 还是〜吧 is another common use – to me it feels similar to 〜方がいい, and I'd treat it as completely separate from the "or" meaning. Which is structurally different anyway since it's always sandwiched between two options.

(And I don't mind at all, it's also fun for me to see everyone here being so enthusiastically frustrated with learning; really my biggest concern is accidentally misleading anyone because my own knowledge is not standard nor very formalised LOL. Amazing how many grammar transgressions you can get away with colloquially XD and maybe it'll kick my brain to getting back into Japanese learning… /pointed stare of the N2 books I haven't touched since acquiring them)

[nnozomi]

e.g. 我不知道他今天去还是明天去.
I don't think of this as an exception to the 还是-in-questions rule, because it's still an embedded question in the larger sentence, like "I don't know [is he going today or tomorrow?]." I'll try to commit to memory that 无论 works the same way. (another of those 麻烦 Japanese overlaps where it's not the same thing but not quite totally different--無論 in Japanese is just もちろん or 当然...).

And I don't mind at all, it's also fun for me to see everyone here being so enthusiastically frustrated with learning;
Once again, very much appreciated! （如果对日语我能帮你个忙，你什么时候都说，though I'm not a native speaker I am a daily user with native speakers on tap).